Why I don't care about the poor this week

I don't care about the poor as much today as I did last week.

I am thinking less about issues of justice. I am less engaged with the struggle and I am more engrossed in my own problems.

If you said this is not a slum - you answered correctly.

If you said this is not a slum - you answered correctly.

That's because I'm travelling away from the slum where we live in Cambodia, spending time in New Zealand this month. My values and attitudes haven't changed, but my context is vastly different.

In short, the reason I don't care as much this week is simple - isolation from the poor.

Outta sight.

Outta mind.

Paul Piff, a psychologist at UC Berkeley has studied the charitable habits of different social classes. Based on his research, Piff told New York magazine “the rich are way more likely to prioritize their own self-interests above the interests of other people. They are more likely to exhibit characteristics that we would stereotypically associate with, say, assholes.”

Pretty harsh. But Piff's research suggests that exposure to need drives generous behavior and isolation from the needs of the world drives self-centeredness.

Multiple studies have backed this up. Researchers from The Chronicle of Philanthropy studied charitable habits across different American neighborhoods. Poorer ZIP codes gave relatively more. Richer neighborhoods gave relatively less.

But here's the kicker - those wealthy folks who lived in overwhelmingly rich neighborhoods (ie. areas where more than 40% of households earned at least $200,000 a year) were significantly less generous than comparably wealthy people who lived in more diverse surroundings.

So, generosity was less a factor of affluence and more a factor of exposure to need.

Isolation breeds selfish behavior.

The solution is simple. The solution is engagement.

We need to get out of our bubbles. We need to find places of cross-over with folks who are different from us. We need to be continually rubbing shoulders with people on the margins, people in need. We need to tear down the walls of insulation around our safe lives and find ways to engage with the needs of the world.

And we'll find that we are more giving, generous, open-handed people as a result.

I don't care about the poor as much this week. And that's why I can't wait to get back to Cambodia, to my neighborhood, and to my friends - so that my priorities can be realigned with the priorities of Jesus, to bring Good News to the poor.

 

[Research quoted in this blog post comes from Ken Stern's book, With Charity for All: Why Charities Are Failing and a Better Way to Give]